now going on to do I have a plan the anser is no, but I have just recieved funding through E.I to go and take a program through the learning disabilitys asscioation of manitoba. my second son I think is also ,but one is the more notesable of the two,so thats where we start. I have one son who is in the middle of gettig tested, I think so. Iam 48 years on this earth, having said that I have wasted a lot of them. this intell I received from a person at the learning disabilitys group here in winnipeg all I have to say is very helpfull. I only found out about the term adhd back in june. lets see if I ca anser some if not all of your quiestions if I can. I have never done drugs although I had used alcohol socially 1-3 drinks a week maybe up until 2 years ago and pretty much stopped then as I never could handle alcohol and It never gave me a rush in fact it made me lethargic combined with a huge headache shortly after consuming it. I am trying to put a plan together on how to do it but it is difficult because it involves family and friends although I need to make amends to all. It is a strong desire (thank goodness as I feel I have some morality in me). I just did not seek out great mentors…Ī huge hurdle for me is I have to make amends to so many people I have harmed up to this point in my life due to my impulsiveness (No I did not shoot anyone) Financial issues mostly. Funny lazy…please I used to run circles around everyone physically it was my impulsive decision making process that was the huge issue. I finally feel some relief in knowing more about this ADHD thing and the issues I have been going through may actually have a scientific and physical source as opposed to being just not trying hard enough and being lazy. I have one for sure and I believe two others are.Īlso may I ask your approximate ages and when you were diagnosed with ADHD? 45 for me and during second divorce I realized that I had issues when I went back to school and started talking to a disability and employment counselors about the difficulties I had gone through in the past… Do either of you have a plan or course of action to deal with and conquer this “Syndrome” and your specific needs? I am in the infancy stages believe it or not. Do you have children that have been diagnosed with or you suspect may have ADHD?. May I ask either of you if you are taking any Meds? I am not yet, but I am seeking a Dr now to get them. I bet society would then recognize it and the economic barriers in getting proper treatment for all would be removed as even the wealthy’s nose would be exposed for all the world to see……………. Funny I think this would be a more excepted disorder if there was a physical marker attribute associated with it like a dark blue nose. Why the questions? i guess I am still trying to understand and gain knowledge of ADHD and become educated that I am not the only one. To be fair with my answers following them as both of you seem to have many of the same concerns I do. Trashman & ADHDornuts and anyone else whom would like to chime in………… Questions to you if I may….I am just gonna throw them out there. I don’t know if it will work I have only started with tis. I am trying to let her become the voice of resan in my life. I am trying to get myself to talk to my wife befor I act or respond to any of my thoughts. after all that time and my rant here’s my tip. so how does one stop thinking with there emotions and start using there head I don’t know, but for me if I could master that I could be someone else. I have given up or lost some very good jobs because of this. at that point when I start acessing the damage it’s far to lake and way out of control and no turnning back. it s like stoping is not a option for me, when I feel tat way I always end up with saying someone can burn a bridge with me then i’ll take the piers out of the water. it seams that no matter what I do that id a defence that I go to every time and then I go on the attack.

If I think someone or something is in some way threatning me or at least I think that way, I get very impulsive.

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